"It is very nice to meet you, Steve. Please don't be angry with Danny. He's really, very nice and I want to stay very much." I open my eyes wide and even push my accent a little. Not much, just enough to appear worried. It tends to make adults soften. 'Oh, dear, listen to the little foreign girl.'

Plus, it makes it easier to gauge their reactions, if they think I sometimes struggle, they do not watch what they say as much. "Please do not make me leave."